I’m migrating a number of internal web application databases off of a mysql server and I wanted a way to see which databases are being accessed and by which hosts.

# tshark -R "mysql.opcode == 2" -e ip.src -e mysql.schema -T fields port mysql

When run on the mysql server this produces a tab separated list of values compromised of the client ip address and the database name when a mysql client specifies a database. See the man page for tshark for more information.

Update:

This catches the circumstance where database is set on login as well:
# tshark -R "mysql.schema" -e ip.src -e mysql.schema -T fields port mysql